My boyfriend wants to have sex.....?

-So ive been going out with this guy for 1 1/2 months. He says he loves me and everything and i really believe him....... except for the fact that he says he wants to have sex. That makes me think that maybe hes using me since im only 16 and hes 17. What do you think about this? Do you think someone can love you at this age and just want to have sex because they love you? Btws we have known eachother way longer then 1 1/2 months thats just when we started dating.Your answer provides the notion you don't think this is a good idea, and I would have to agree. I can't tell if he's trying to use you, being a generically horny teenager, or if he really is interested in the notion of having sex with YOU.



I would definitely talk to him about it before you immediately allow him to. Ask him his sexual history and whether he's had STDs (and while embarrassing, this is important because I doubt that you want one!).



Just be very careful in this case. If you feel that it's the right decision, go for it, but realize it's a permanent decision and there always can be negative outcomes. I don't know if you're a virgin (you didn't mention) but the guy I lost my virginity to played his cards well by saying he loved me and cared about me. We dated about the same amount of time, and after we had sex he dumped me three days later at my senior prom. See whether the benefits outweigh the risk.WOAH!!!!!!! yes you can love someone at that age, OFCOURSE YOU CAN...BUT....you don't need to have sex with him...im guessing you are a virgin??? if so, do you know how painful sex is the first few times?? do you really want to experience that with someone you dont fully trust???? and if you have had sex before, than you should know that guys aren't always as honest as they make out (hump em and dump em in other words)...that's not to say that all guys are bad, but not all guys nag you for sex...some will love you for who you are...if he EVEN SLIGHTLY makes you feel guilty about saying no, or pressures you, tell him to leave. No guy should ever pressure some one who isnt ready...and FOR THE LOVE OF GOD IF YOU DO HAVE SEX??? WEAR A FREAKING CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -.- xx
Oh NO!!!! the question is r u ready to have sex with this guy!!! do u love him/ make him wait !!! only 1.5 mionths 1st your young i knw u hav hormones but personally i dnt think anyone should sex that early on in a relationship. since it is so early and hes saying i love u he could jus b saying that jus to get your drawz boo~boo!!! but i say wait see how long he can wait ...if he talks about it alot dnt do it !!! because u will start feeling pressured after a while ...when u think about a situation hard like this dnt do it sounds like u r hesitant...do your parents agree with u having sex r they against it?: r u a virgin? i need details email me plz!!! princess_uniqueness@yahoo.com
Hi Mckenzie:

If he really loves you he will wait until you are ready to have sex. Which in my opinion is on your wedding night. A side from that you are to young. He might just want sex so that you will be another notch in his belt that he can brag about. Hun you have many more years before you find the guy that you want to spend the rest of your life with and grow old with. And so does he.
DON'T DO IT! Wait at least 6 months or until you know the feelings are real. When you are young you think you are "soo in love" but when it comes down to it a lot of times the guy doesn't care as much as you do. It's just an age thing guys take longer to mature.
Don't do it. If you are still a virgin, don't. And if you are not a virgin, still don't. No matter how long you knew each other, you've just been going out for 1.5 months. That's not long enough to do anything. You are only 16. Don't do anything that you will regret later on in life. Good luck!
DONT DO IT!!!!! If he really loves you he will wait and not pressure you. Since he is pressuring you it most likely means he is saying he loves you just to get into ur pants. And yes he could think he actually loves you but when ur a 17 year old male you usually confuse love with being horny....Remember if he truly loves you he will wait as long as you make him without pressuring you...Do not do it...he will break ur heart
The dude is a player who wants your virginity. You have been dating him such a short time. There is no way he thinks about you as his true love. Wait until you are certain the man you make love to is going to be your husband.
Horny and love look alike at that age. Dont have sex until you are ready. If he pressures it is the horny talking. If he loves you then he can wait.
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At your age, I don't think that you should have sex if YOU are not ready to. Worry about love when you are older and actually understand what love is.
make him wait sweetheart. don't do it if you're not ready. he'll wait. think to yourself, "I am worth waiting for."



all the best amiga.
Every guy wants sex, but he can also love you.

Figure out the rest yourself.
sure he loves you......NOT

only until he gets what he wants.

move on
That's way too soon...it seems like he is pressuring you and MAY be using you for sex. It's up to you and your gut instincts though
Wait a while
i wouldnt do it with him just in case hes not really into u i would wait at least a year :)
don't do this. make him wait. you guys don't know love yet. this is puppy love
First of all you're too young and second, wait until marraige. Thats the way its suppose to be.
i love you and want to have sex with you to when we are married that is proff of love
if i9 were you i wouldn't have sex with him because you have only been dating a month and a half
what ever your comfortable with!
don't do it.it's very soon for you.