*GUYS OPINION* Am I dateable?

-I have never had a boyfriend in a long time. And I have this personality that makes guys like me, but they don't date me. Is this about friendship? I am pretty much laid-back and happy all the time, i have plenty of self confidence and positivity. I have a pet peeve of naughty children that go against me for no reason. Also, I love guys who make me laugh, completing my happy personality. I love horror movies over comedy (I have no clue why (: ) and I LOVE watching them with guys to see what they're like when they get scared! Well, i'm not sadistic, I just love a good laugh. I like a guy who's smart, caring and has a shoulder for me to cry on when I'm in need.



How come guys won't date me and just tell me they USED to like me?no you're definitely not datable.

You will die alone, all dried up.I think its because you would basically play the guy in the relationship, it is normally the guy who is laid back and stuff. I cant really help you with this question. The only thing i can say is be yourself, you will find a guy who will like you for you and will be a better boyfriend than all the people who don't like you because you might have a few flaws
Well sometimes guys really start to love a girl and they're too scared or shy and they don't say or do anything about it and just start liking someone else sooner or later. My advice is if you like the guy start giving him hints, if you know he likes you and he tells you nothing or does nothing you must do something about it.

And yes you are dateable, very dateable.
EVERY girl is dateable, keep your spirits up, always be yourself and keep your heart open, there is probably some guy in the corner of your life that wants to date you but predicts you won't pay him any mind, probably one of your guy friends is really into you. The right guy will come along (i take back wat I said not all girls are dateable but yea)
Several possiblities.



1. Physical Attraction.

2. They lack self confidence.

3. You come across as a hard target.



You sound like a fun person to me, but it is hard to give sound advice without knowing more. Email me at muttiniraq@yahoo.com if there are things you left out due to the public nature of this forum. I will answer honestly.
Of course your dateable I wish someone like you was in my area you personality is amazing. It doesn't matter if you've had a boyfriend or not that just means the guys you around are to dumb to realize what they have so don't stress your beautiful.
Thats a clear friend type of personality you describe yourself as having. Guys will more than likely only be in it for the puss, then bounce one you give it up.
They're scared that you will be the man of the relationship, if you catch my drift. They want a girl who's sensitive and won't dominate.
"In a long time"......WOW....



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maybe they dont want to ruin the relationship or sorry but they might think your ugly :/ idk thats just how they r. btw i know guys were only supposed to answer but i wanted to too. sorryy.
Teen dating is often about looks. If you're average/slightly above and your weight is fine, you should have no trouble getting a fcuk buddy, i mean boyfriend
sadly a lot of guys judge on good looks. then again, so do women.



don't worry about it too much. you're probably still young.
you're more of a friend.
ur time will come
From your rambling story, it sounds like you got fat.