Sex with a friend issue? i?

-I like a guy, he wants sex bad! An has been trying to get it THE WHOLE half year I've known him but still shares and listens to my emotional stuff what does that mean and if I give it to him will he stop ?He's not your friend.



Guys are only friends with girls they are attracted to. He listens to your emotional stuff because that's what he thinks he has to do in order to get into your pants. If you give in it won't stop. He will want it again and again. It won't ever stop ~ it will only intensify.He is only listening to your problems because he wants sex. Real friends don't pressure you or try to manipulate friends into doing things there own way. Real friends will be supportive with out selfish motives.



You sound like you need someone to talk to and you would be better off finding a confident that you can trust. Some one like a trusted high school counselor or find a good therapist to work through your emotional issues with.



Also have a look on the web there are plenty of support groups online that may be helpful for you right now if you can't find someone to talk to right away in person. My suggestion is to always go with caution especially on line.



Be aware that there are also people who may not be good for you as well as red flags should go up. Even pedophiles will pose as young guys to manipulate their victims. Don't become a victim to one or succumb to their pressures.



The only way he will stop is if you cut him off. Cutting him off is not having any thing to do with him any more and it's for your well being. If you continue talking to him then he's not going to stop pressuring you about sex.
I was in the exact same position as you. It ended up bad. He only wanted sex. Period, end of story. Oh, then he got with my bestfriend hahaha. Don't give it to him!!
Are you a slut? He wants sex and you are thinking of giving it to him? Do emotions rule your brain or common sense?