-My boyfriend and I have been dating a couple weeks, but it feels like months.
He admitted he was worried that I would leave him for someone else. He doesnt like the fact that more than half of my friends are guys, and he got upset when he saw pictures of past boyfriends/interests in my phone. He saw a picture I uploaded to my facebook of my most recent ex boyfriend, who also comes up in conversation quite often.
I only uploaded the picture because the guy cant upload pictures to his computer, so he asked me to so he can make it his profile picture. He's also my best friend, so I said yes. I uploaded it, but i forgot to delete it after he made it his profile picture.
My boyfriends kind of mad at me now... when we were talking about it in text he quit replying. I decided to call him to see if he was okay, and he said he was, but it was obvious he wasnt. He sent me a goodmorning text today, but never replied to what i said. He hasnt texted me all day either (which is unusual). Should I try texting him or just leave him alone....? :/Don't let him restrict you to less friends and don't let him walk all over you. One of the biggest things in a relationship is trust and you need to tell him to trust you and that you and that other guy are over. Make him feel good if you want by telling him that there's nothing to be jealous of and that you're with him now and that he's most important. I agree with the other dude though too: texting gets annoying. Guys just don't like it when girls text them a lot. Talk to him in person. The most important thing is that you stay strong and don't let him push you around because you can be friends with who ever you want.
There is also the riskier, reverse psychology method which, when it works, it can work well. You tell him that you're mad at him for trying to restrict you and for getting so jealous and he would give a sincere apology and you guys would make up and he probably wouldn't make that mistake again. Of course that's much riskier and you shouldn't do it unless you think you cant pull it off but it's probably more effective.Call him tell him your worried Hes gunna leave you and explain you did it to help your best friend put pictures up on fb. If he loves you hell understand but if i was you i would delete all of ur exs pictures maybe keep 1 each so u remember them but on a usb not on fb hell be happier.
im the same way with my girlfriend and i get upset when she talks with other boys..
i say the best thing you could do was send a text saying "im sorry." and let him take his time to reply.
when im mad at my girlfriend i get more mad if she texts me to much.
but thats my opinion.
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