I feel so ugly compared to all my friends!?

-I am blonde and have blue eyes, I'm naturally tan, and I'm short for my age. I feel so ugly compared to all of my friends. I get so mad when i hear that ANOTHER guy likes one of my friends. One of my friends in particular. She is already dating the guy i have had a crush on FOREVER! I am on all of my guy friends "Top 5" list. But I am always 4 or 5. I know i really shouldn't care about these things, but it really hurts sometimes. When nobody likes me "like that" and nobody seems to want to listen, because they think i am trying to pull a pity party or something. I tell my friends all the time that they are wayy prettier than me, and they just say thanks. nothing like, oh your pretty too, or anything. I feel sooo ugly, and i know its not healthy to feel this way, but i cant help it. Thanks in advancedYou don't feel ugly, you're just jealous. You know you're pretty, or else you wouldn't have started out with "I'm blonde, blue eyes and natural tan..." just stop being jealous of your friends. I know a friend dating someone you like is hard, it has happened to me ):



But just realize, you're pretty. You have 2 working legs and a brain, start strutting your stuff, because you got it :)You're blonde with blue eyes, AND you are natrually tanned?! seriously? You sound hot! Also guys like small girls, they find them sexy. You're probably just an insecure person but seriously you have nothing to worry about, you sound like an attractive girl, and your friends probably think/know they are pretty, which isn't a good thing. I think you should be proud with your appearence and just be more confident with yourself. You probably have many secret admirers you don't know about so don't worry yourself! I hope this helped:)
I have this problem sometimes too. I'm 16 and 4'11", have a big nose and short eyelashes. If I pull my hair back in a ponytail and don't wear make-up, I look like an Italian boy. xD Most of my friends tease me because I'm usually the shortest one no matter what group I'm hanging around, but (and I really don't mean to brag ><) guys like me a lot more than my friends b/c apparently my personality is appealing and my height is cute. I found a hairstyle that suits me too. My friends are all tall and gorgeous, but they can be kinda bitchy and guys aren't into that until they want their bodies come with the package.



Having shared a little of my life with you, I hope you can gain confidence (even though I still have little to none as well Dx) and that you can see being #4 or 5 is still part of that list, and you could easily be bumped up a number or more. If you have a personality that people like, then do your best to convey that to them. I read somewhere that the outer appearance is what attracts people to get to know you, however, when they get to know the real you, their perspective on your appearance changes. Have you ever seen a relatively unattractive person coupled with a very good looking person? And they just seem sooo in love, right? That's because when someone falls in love with your personality (this can be said for friends too, not just romance with guys), they fall in love with you too.



From your description, you sound really pretty, but some people are too self-absorbed or lazy to give/return compliments to others. I'm sure your friends don't say "You're pretty too" because they don't think you are... Maybe they just don't think you need to hear it. Although it's never very pleasant when someone says "I'm soo ugly" in hopes of hearing otherwise. It really does seem like you want a pity party and it annoys people. Sorry to be so blunt. Rather than show people that side of you, bring out a more enthusiastic, beautiful you and show all of your friends how great you are... and don't forget to flaunt, just a little, in front of the guys;D



Whenever I'm called short, I tell my friends they're going to give me a serious complex about myself, and in the future, I won't be able to wear any shoes other than 8-inch hooker heels. Just being able to joke about that kind of thing displays a strong sense of confidence and you get a laugh while you're at it. Good luck! You're truly beautiful no matter what.
YOu sound hot to me. I would not worry. We all feel this way in school and at least some time in our lives. Branchout and make other friends in addition to thse freinds and you will meet other people who will show an interest in you. I bet that there are manyguys who like you, you just dont talk to them, or you have never given them a chance.
It's really how you feel inside. Try to be confident. Buy a new shirt or an outfit that you like, style/cut your hair differently, or buy new shoes. These things will help you feel confident. Otherwise, stand up straight and be natural. It's way easier said than done (I would know) but do your best.
You ARE beautiful in you're own way. Guys don't usually like girls that aren't confident in them selves. Be proud to have what you have. :) And, eventually you will meet a guy who likes YOU for YOU. Just, try not to rush it.
I know that feeling, just ignore it. You're always the most beautiful on the inside. Looks don't even matter most of the time, cuz looks don't make personalities (srry if this didn't help)
Your not ugly and u got guys friends thats good



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Build that confidence up chick. Walk in a room and say to yourself "Im prettier and sexier than ALL these bitches up in here!". Confidence is key.
You need to find some b*** ugly friends.
Cheer up. Pretty girls are more likely to be raped than non-pretty ones. : )
too bad. boo hoo if your always looking at ur friends faces and getting jelous ur obviously gonna look ugly.



why dont u dress up, put a little bit of make up on and act confident. no ones ugly
It's natural to feel this way, and you'll probably find that even your 'prettier' friends (which I'm sure they aren't, you sound lovely) feel ugly as well.



Instead of focusing on how pretty you think your friends are, why not put that energy into something that could be beneficial to you, such as taking up an interesting hobby like an instrument?



It's not just looks that make a girl attractive to a guy, it's personality and quirks as well - so try to let yours shine through and you will find a guy that's worth your time and who likes you for who you really are, and isn't just looking to jump your bones!
your still young that is the problem you should not feel like that your still growing their will be a time when those girls will not be your girls *** friends if she does not care about you and says o0oh thanks then shes not a real friend. you have to be yourself and have confidence you have to build it up yourself and just be happy with yourself and sooner or later a guy will see that in you and like you for you and not just your looks i have been their. their will come a time in your life *** well when you find out who your real friends are friends will come and go but their will be always a friend that stays and listens to you when you need it. try in find other girls that are more happy and like to hang out with everybody and you will start feeling better about yourself.
It sounds like you are spending your time being jealous of your friends and comparing yourself to your friends. If you keep things up at this rate life will pass you by and you will miss out on your teen years. What is it that you like about your friends? What is it that you like about yourself? Why do you like these boys? Why would you want to still be interested in boys who happen to be dating your friends?



You don't have to tell me or any one. Keep a diary and write down your thoughts and you can also list your goals in that diary as well too. Be also careful with whom you confide in on the web. When you are this vulnerable you can easily open yourself up to people who can harm you on the web. There are lots of unsavory characters out there that are looking for vulnerable teens. I have included some links for you.



The first thing you can do for yourself is stop comparing yourself to all your friends. It's not doing you any good and jealous is eating you up. Jealously only makes you bitter and lonely. Those three traits are not the best company to be surrounded with. It's awkward being a teenager and just remember even your friends that you think are pretty also have tend to have some awkward tendencies.



How can you make some changes? Make new friends outside of the social network you already have. How do you make new friends? Volunteer work, Summer School, Part-time job, Take a night course in a hobby or interest you may have, Summer Camp, etc There are even outside activities like Guides or Junior Achievement. What ever interests you try to find something that you enjoy doing and that will take your mind off of these things and you'll be busy.



Guess what if you take the time to get involved in something that maybe just from being involved you will find who you are and what you like. You may also find your future career that way also and meet some interesting people along the way. I have posted some links and you can take a look and see what they have to offer. I would strongly suggest that you to talk to your parents and ask them permission before you make up your mind because it's always important to consult with your parents before you decide doing any thing.