Guys: what would you do in my situation. Girls: what is she doing? with me?

-K so, i really like this girl, we had this instance connection when we first met, We became really close friends in matter of days she even admitted it. I thought she liked me, so when i told her bout my feelings, she told me that she also had this instance connection with this guy long time ago and she get butterflies around him and she is comfortable around me therefore she likes/loves him? he lives far away (not in the same city). They have planned that they would start dating one day. This girl, randomly rest her head on my shoulder, stares into my eyes, laughs my jokes, we talk on the phone for hours, she calls me her lucky charm and tells me how she sometimes wories bout losing me. She even tells me how if i was a bit taller it would be perfect. She texts me whenever she can like in the morning when she wakes up till at the end of the day she tells me about her day. Recently, she went to Edmonton. Place where her friends and the other guy lives. She text me a lot on her trip to Edmonton, But that evening, she sent me a text after a while saying that she is mad because he might be moving to Vancouver. I tried to comfort her saying that maybe its for the best, She replied with but i don't agree with it. I said after that if i was there i would give her a big hug and tell her it will be aight. She replied with just thank you. afterwards i sent her how she shouldn't be sad because, her being sad makes me sad. and i sent cheer up! i'll always be there for you. And she hasn't responded.Oh ya. she also apparently had this feeling for him for 5 years. What you think it is? Does she like me? What should i do??!! I really like this girl. I have dated many women but never met anyone like her. i may even love her! plz help meIt sounds like she wants to be more than friends, but only if her and the other guy doesn't work out. Right now you're just her best friend, and if he really destroys every chance of her and him being together, then she will want to be with you. She might not be texting you at the moment because she is sad. If you held on to somebody for five years, then you obviously love them, and he is breaking her heart. Just give her time, and she will text you back. But as far as any intimate relationship goes, it's your decision on what you can deal with. You can let her drag you along 'til he cuts his ties, or you can just be friends with her. However she is obviously hurt by him, and is confiding and seeking comfort in you, so be a good friend to her, even though she is making the mistake of not choosing you, cuz you seem like a really nice guy.im a girl and i think that she has strong feelings for you, bus she has even stronger feelings for this other guy. i think it would be for the best if you just get out of this situation bc youll only end up getting hurt
She is talking to you about ANOTHER guy she has feelings for. Women who like a guy do NOT talk about other men.



Are you that foolish? You are her backup guy. And you are a weak one also. Walk away now.
It seems like she really like him,but considering yall are so close she might likes you.Talk to her and tell her because she might see you as a best friend.
apparently shes a slut, alot of instant connections, may b i should meet her and see if i get an instant erection....
I read half. Thats all i needed your in the friend zone. Only way to get out s to be a asshole.
she's more into this other guy
my friend. you are in super mega friend zone central. abandon all hope, this one is going NOWHERE. on to the next one and keep your head up. since im feeling nice, I'll tell you what you did wrong.

confessed your feelings. lollll don't do that.

talked on the phone for hours. are you serious man

talked about feelings/ her guy friends.

talks about your qualities and how you would be "perfect" if you were taller. in other words, she would date someone like you...but not you.

you're basically on te same level as her girlfriends. move on.