-this girl i like told me she has feelings for me but she's still in love with her ex and is pregnant with his kid. i was thinking i should just stop texting her or calling her (not to be mean or rude) and let it go for a few weeks and see if she comes around. do you think this will make her miss me and text me?If she texts you first, you should reply. She'll worry that you're upset with her for something if you ignore her for weeks, and might move on herself... look for comfort from her ex or another guy even... if she sees no relationship with you. If she's pregnant, then probably she'll probably want a man in her life to help her take care of the child when her ex isn't around to do so. By not texting her, you're being manipulative and dishonest. I think it would be a good idea to instead talk to her about this and say something like, "I want to be with you, but I feel uncomfortable that you're still in love with your ex. Maybe we shouldn't talk for a few weeks and if you feel like you don't need me in your life as much as your ex, then let's just be friends." Something like that... Hope I helped!I don't think the best solution would be to stop texting or calling her. I think the best solution would be to put all of your feelings out and let her know how you feel. You have to find out if she's ready to move on from her ex or if she still feels a sense of hope. Also she's pregnant so she may only be looking for a friend right now because in a few months all of her focus and energy has to go to the baby. Anything worth waiting for is worth fighting for so with that said I suggest you tell her how you feel and take it from there. I hope this helps a little.
it might work out how you want it too, which is the way you said; or it could juss hurt her feelings & make her think that juss cuz she was honest with her & she still loves her ex you don't want to be with her. if i were you i wouldn't hurt her like that & put her through that stress, specially if she's pregnant. and you care about her. if you really want her to give you a chance eventually, i'd keep talking to her & make her feel like she's actually worth someones timee. not be an asss about it & make her text you. haa.
Question for you...Why do you want an unavailable pregnant girl, who's still in love with her ex? Yes, you should let it go...forever, in fact.
sh'es preggy, so why do you want to play with her?? Leave her alone and move on
i think it makes u sound like a jerk who wants some. but thats just me. if shes prego, she needs a friend right now, and u ignoring her and not talkin to her would just be ****** up
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