Tempted to text him, what should I do?

-2 days ago I asked "Is he really too busy for me or is he indirectly telling me he isn't interested anymore?"



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And have been advised to wait until his next move.....I have been ANXIOUSLY waiting! I can't believe I am feeling this way! It's such an uncomfortable feeling! :/ I'm so tempted to text him because today is supposed his sisters' wedding which is supposed to be a small family gathering from what he told me. Which he said he was involved in some of the organization of the occasion.



I've been tempted to text him either tonight to ask "Hi....., how was the wedding?" or tomorrow afternoon I'm tempted to text him "Hi......, how was your weekend? I hope your sister's wedding was a success."



If I don't hear from him by tomorrow evening is it ok to take that risk without seeming anxious to get his attention?



If I don't hear from I'm even tempted to text him...."Hi....., I feel and have felt some type of disconnect with you. Can u let me know...I don't want to continue making efforts to communiate with you if its no longer welcome...."



Maybe I can send it to him if I don't get a response about how his sister's wedding goes?



What should I do??? Help me get rid of this anxiety please :(you do have anxiety about him. you'd think he'd text without a reminder. ask yourself what it says about the relationship; about you; about him.



the guy's a disappointment because you have definite expectations. no offense intended, but folks get into trouble with themselves if they hang onto their definite expectations (especially for significant-others).



no one on earth is loved -- or held as preciously -- as they expect to be. let go and let him get in-touch if he's so moved. this can be much easier SAID than done. but you can do it, sister, if you wanna be flexible enough to be stronger than ever.



time's going by. it WILL seem that you're anxious to get his attention if you make the first move. pretend you're him and not yourself; try to put yourself in his shoes (rather, his "personality").



but to rid yourself of anxiety, realize how serene you felt before meeting him. know that each person must find security & peace within -- before realizing comfort in relationships. no matter who we're "with", we're always on our own. there's no waiting on others like this, to create happiness. think of the ideal way you'd like to be; and you can make first steps to be such a strong, loving-but-independent woman.



you're too good for this anxiety. know it -- and that's at least 95% of the battle. think it over before falling into wasting precious, emotional energy on someone who's unpredictable (and "maybe trying to tell you something"). love itself is unpredictable. good luck to you, sister. been there done that too, only "long ago and far-away".He was obviously very busy with the wedding. Maybe he has some work which he has to do now that the wedding's over. I think you should send that wedding text



If he doesn't text back, just leave it at that. It's obvious he's not interested if he can't take 30 sec to send back one text, at least to let you know that he's very busy currently
Well,wait a few more days to see if he texts you first. But if you really want to I don't see why not,just don't over do it.



Hope I helped.
Woah woah woahhhh. Let me help you out here hun. DO NOT text him. Especially not saying those things ^ you sound way too desperate and overwhelming.



I've been in that state before. Feeling anxious and upset, waiting for a text, but you have to let it go. Unfortunately men are the hunters. If he is interested in you, he will make the move. You cannot force anything onto him.



And also, you text a little awkward /: Chill with the dots....... its going to freak him out. If you WERE to text him just casually say "Hey, how did the wedding go? (:"