Should I have sex?? PLEASE HELP :P?

-Well, my boyfriend and I have been going out for two years (since I was 13). I am 15 and he is 17 and I knew him before we were going out... I am very mature and valedictorian in school, and I am very involved with a ton of different things. I love him so much and he is the best friend and boyfriend a girl could ever dream of having. We barely bicker or fight and we are extremely close and have good communication. Everyone comments how they can see how much we love each other, like the old ladies in church or my friends at school. And, its true - he means the world to me... We have been through so much together and our relationship is pretty strong. He is really special to me and I don't plan on seeing other people. I was too shy to ask this question to anyone else.... I just don't want this to mess up our relationship. And I don't want to do something I am not ready for. I mean how long do people usually wait to have sex? I'm not worried about pregnancy stds, etc because I am on birth control and we have access to condoms. We make out and mess around a little, but nothing drastic. Our hormones are going crazy lol, but he never will pressure me to do something I don't want. I just want to know, how to know when the time is right and your input on the situation. :P



Thank you!!!



PS Do people really actually wait until they are married? lolYou should wait. If you love him so much and don't plan on ever dating other people then why not wait until you are older and get married? It sounds like you have a really great relationship and it would be really sad to mess it up when you are still young and probably not ready. Waiting until you're married will make it something more special also, that you share will the guy you love and will be with forever <3You shouldn't have sex. Lol... I know your hormones and his are going crazy but you should wait. Some people do wait til they are married... Jessica Simspon waited. Haha. Some people are still virgins til way past 40... haha. You will know when you are ready... you wouldn't have to question what you are doing or anything. Just go with the flow. Don't go farther than you feel comforable. You will regret it. Be patient. :)
Well if he isn't pressuring you, then he probably loves you for who you are, but sex will change your relationship regardless. Sometimes it can get obsessive, or too little, etc. You're 15, that's young! So think about it!

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When you as ready. Have sex. It isn't that hard and it is a biological act, not a miracle. However, if you want a more educated reason. Look up studies. There are a few tha stated that women who wait until marriage are less likely to enjoy sex then those who did not.
I've been waiting till i get married im 18 and nothing yet. Honestly if you do it, it's up to you, but i wouldnt do it unless i was sure, because honestly its not something you can take back once it's gone its gone.
I think you should wait. If you are questioning and unsure in the first place, you need to wait until you know you are ready without question. Also, your still so young. Sex complicates life, you should wait this out.
There's one thing to knowing when the time is right; when you don't have to think about the answer, it just comes to you...you won't be asking us trolls whether you are ready..you'll know. :)
Well you better hurry up because once he turns 18 you gotta wait til you're 18. And, if you feel like you're ready to.
I would just do it when I'm ready whether it's now or 2 years later. As long as you're smart about it. :)
No people don't wait lol but ur situation sounds lik a dream lol sex is supposed to be shared between two people who love each other and you obviously do love him but remember if things don't work out it hurts 10 times worse knowing you gave it up to him but he wasn't the one but he sounds like a great guy and it'll b best to lose it to him then to sum jerk
Yeah some people wait till they are married but this is the modern world and not many people follow that example (although more than you would think do wait). I am no expert, as I myself am still a virgin and proud of it (and I'm 21) but what you should be asking yourself is simply "Am I ready to do that". I am in love myself and I understand the desire and pressure yet I know I am not ready (may seem old fashioned to wait so long but I am glad I did =) none of my cheating exes got to break my heart or my virginity). This is unfortunately not something that someone else can figure out for you, you have to decide when the time is right and when you are ready. I really hope this helps and I hope you figure out the best thing for you.
The truth is, the only person who can answer this question is yourself. Only you can know when your body is ready. You sound like you have been together for a long long time and you both feel ready but at the end of the day only you can know if thats what you want. Make sure you do it because its what you want and not just because he wants to. You two should also talk about it ahead of time to make sure you are both ready for that type of relationship. Its great that you are on birth control thats the only other thing you need to make sure of.
yes ppl wait ill they r married and i just think ur too yound for something this emotional and physical messing around is one thing and having sex is another

birth control doesnt always work and condom usually break so i just think u should wait until further on ur relationship to see where it goes cuz if u wait and in the next year or so u 2 spliut ull be happy that u waited

just see what happens



BUT u wouldnt need to ask when u would be ready for sex ur body would just know when the time is right if that makes sense ur clearly not tready since ur asking everyone else if u are!