I'm scared of what he'll do..?

-I'm seeing my boyfriend tomorrow, and for some reason he thinks that we're going to have sex.

I'm 13 and a virgin, and honestly, I don't think that I'm ready.



I'm scared that he might rape me if I say no, and I don't know what to do. I have nobody at home to tell about this, as my parents are out of town, and the rest of my family ignore my calls. My brother is meant to be caring for me, but he's gone to a friends' house party, and when he comes home he'll be drunk.



What do I do? :(Make up some excuse why you can't see him tomorrow? Or just invite him round and if he try's it on say 'no' firmly. And push him off. What you doing with a guy you think would disrespect your wishes anyway babe?! But if you change your mind, go for it! Sex is the best feeling.. EVER! :-D much luck, gorgeous!xxxDon't see your boyfriend. Close the blinds and curtains, lock the doors, turn off the radio, TV and lights and don't answer the door or phone. Tell your parents when they get home, including ratting out your drunken brother, and when you next see your boyfriend and he asks where you were, tell him that you didn't want to see anybody that day. If you have to, say you weren't feeling well, but he will learn that that is not true.
Ok First just tell him what you think about having sex. Since you really don't want to have sex tell him and if he tries to grab you just try to push him away. And then just leave. By the way how far do you live from your boyfriends house? Also who is taking you there if it it your boyfriend just call your brother and tell him off and tell him to come pick you up.
Okay for starters, I'm 13, and a virgin too and a lass.. Just recently had this problem litterally yesterday.. Best thing is if you dont feel safe dont meet up with him.. OR.. take a friend with you.. If you cant.. simply say to him.. No im sorry im not ready.. if you loved me you would understand.. if he ends it.. you know he just wanted to use you for your virginity, if he says okay and stays with you.. he is happy to wait till you are ready (: ... I hopee this helps.. Good luckk (: x
where did he get the idea that you were going to have sex. Was it his idea? find a new boyfriend if you are scared of him. Dont be alone with him.
tell your boyfriend that you have plans and wait until your parents are home before you see him again.

... Or break up with him because you shouldn't be with someone if you're scared that they're going to rape you..
If you think he will rape you stop seeing him altogether! Otherwise only see him in public settings or group dates where you can have innocent fun without sexual worries.
can you contact him? if you can you could make it clear that you don't want sex as your not ready for it, or just cancel seeing him, say you are ill..if he's your boyfriend then why would he pressure you into sex, if he loved you he'd wait..this is the time when you know whether the guy just wants you or your body, you sound scared of him; are you?? if you are i would break up with him now, if you don't feel safe with him then why are you going out with him?



If your scared and unsure if you want sex; which you are...DON'T have sex, almost 100% guaranteed you will regret it. If you think your boyfriend will understand if you explain the situation to him then go ahead. Say your brother isn't drunk, could you talk to him, as he seems the only one who you can talk to.





Remember to never do things unless you are totally comfortable with it. :)



Good Luck xx
Omg you shouldnt have to feel scared of your bf lyk tht, is he really tht type or are u just a ltl paranoid but no hun tht's not ok. I know i'm not your mother haha but ur not ready at 13, thts sooo young and im really glad u said u think ur not ready!! Is there no way you can say your sick or something and not go?

Tho if you go make sure u have a weapon or look for something u cld hit him with if he tried anything. If he doesnt respect u he's not worth it. Please please if your scared of him just end the relationship now b4 u get in 2 deep. ur so young to be scared of things like that with a bf.

Rather make up an excuse not to go.