What would a reaction of a girl be if i ask her,if i could kiss her that night ?Will she get mad.?

-We have known each other for the last 9 months.But i feel i am falling in love with her.She has a lot gay friends and now i feel a sense of jealousness.I have become possesive of her.I always want to touch her and hug her.I am 34 & she is 40.I really want to hug her tight and kiss her but i dont want her to take it wrong.I need somebody to suggest honestly me on this issue.Help !!I think it'd be cute to ask her its polite and sweet but you could just try to as well :) goodluck!Well, look, I don't know, because I don't know anything about your situation really - as you've not written about your interactions with her, I can't speculate.



What I would say is this: if you feel you want to kiss her, and you feel she is the same, then just go for it. Don't ask.



If you go for it, and she's not interested, she'll let you know. If you go for it and she IS interested, great.



If you ask and she's not interested, she'll let you know. BUT, if you ask when she IS interested... the fact of you asking may (may) act against you a bit. Because, as we all know, a man goes and gets what he wants!



Seriously, though, I do think this is true. Women don't like being asked if they can be kissed. They want you to go for it. If it's a no, fine, but at least you tried. And you might get more respect for a tried-but-failed than an asked-and-I-suppose...
If you think she might like you back then do it she might kiss you back but if she doesn't you might recieve a slap in the face
Take it easy.....try putting your arm round her waist tenderly, when you say good night and see how it goes....i, she may kiss you first the next time.
Grab her $& kiss her