-First things first, I am 13 and going into 8th grade next year.
Okay, so in the middle of June, my school had about 40 students from Germany come to our school to stay with American families to experience school in America for 2 weeks. I didn't really talk much with any of the German students because I didn't have many classes with them. Friday, at lunch, on their last week in America, I saw this boy. I instantly fell in love with him. He was really cute and seemed really sweet. He was surrounded by tons of girls. My friends and I walked by him and as I turned to look at him, our eyes met and he gave me the biggest smile. All of the girls seemed to notice him smiling at me, so they all stared at me. Later that night, he added me on facebook and started chatting with me. He told me that I was beautiful and he really liked me. He also told me that he has a girlfriend that he doesn't really like that much anymore... that made me kind of sad, but I didn't pay much attention to it. He told me that he would date me, but he lives too far. He made a 'joke' saying he wanted to kiss me. We talked for over two hours. A few days later was the German students' good-bye party (they would leave home to Germany the next day). I decided I wanted to go. On the day of the good-bye party, I hung out with him the whole time. Finally when it was time to leave, he hugged me tight and next thing I knew he kissed me. I felt terrible about his girlfriend, but at the same time I really liked it.
Him leaving was one of the hardest things I have ever experienced in my life. It has been about 3 weeks since he left. We talk on facebook every few days, but it doesn't help. I still cry over him. Lately, it seems like he doesn't like me as much. Today, he broke up with his girlfriend. I posted on his facebook wall saying: "Message me, I need to talk to you!" and he commented: "why". It was really weird and not like him. So, I have no idea what to do, should I try to forget him?
Any advice helps. (:awwww :( you are only 13yrs old you have soooo much more of life to live! he lives in all the way in germany. he might have said he liked you and kissed you but that doesnt mean it will work out.he cheated on his girlfriend,and if it worked out with you too chances are he would have cheated on you.yes its very hard to get over a guy but dont cry over him long distance relationships never work,especially when hes that far away.youre 13 youll find the right guy,and it isnt him!you really should forget him
long distant relationships are never good
you may like him alot but some things you just got to let go
sorry if it doesent help
Im the same age as you and i really think you should move on. i know its hard but its not likly that your going to see him again.
it was just a holliday romance type thing.. you live MILES away from each other so it would never work? it might be hard but try and get over him coz you will prbably never see him again:L
wow...wheirs tha movie
If he doesn't like you anymore then let him go. He cheated on his gf, how can you trust him not to do the same with another girl when you are dating? If he was genuine then he would care. but you can still talk and be friends only with him. If he still likes you then he will make a move. If he doesn't then you gained a friend...
The only honest advice I can give you is, yes, try to forget about him. He is on a different continent. Do you really expect to maintain a serious relationship over FB? Besides that, his reaction to your post was kind of cold. Would you trust me it shall pass?
ok don't get mad but to be honest it sounds to me like you re not very experienced. First of all you cannot fall in love with someone you dont know very well, it sounds more like a hookup but perhaps you re just very naive and innocent. Think about this, he kissed you but he has a girlfriend, if you guys went out the same thing could happen to you. Also theres no way a long distance relationship will work. He is gonna go back to Germany meet some cute girl, and forget about you, and im sure you of him. There are TONSSS of awesome guys out there for a nice girl like you so dont worry. Honey believe ME, you will meet another guy after he leaves and you will forget about this whole thing
I think you were just a fling to him. Sorry =/
Like a puppy love summer thing. He's terrible for kissing you when he had a gf, I mean JEEZ. Talk about un-loyal. He could do that to YOU if he started dating you, and then dumping you the same way. I would forget him and get over it, you need to have brains and think. As soon as they say they have a gf, you need to like back off. Even if he and his gf have a bad relationship, it would be good to remind him that you are not cheap or easy and you were probably making yourself that way perhaps.
Don't trust a strange guy you just met that calls you "beautiful" cause he probably is totally just saying that to get what he wants.
Who cares that he is cute, he's one of those guys that wants a new gal to be with every once in a while.
Don't act desperate or clingy, just MOVE ON.
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