-We've been together for 15 months. She says i love you over 20 times a day and i used to feel tingles and smile every single time, but now i don't feel anything towards it. I do love her so i say it back and she says she feels tingles... what's wrong with me?
How come i don't feel her love anymore?
what do i do to get the 'butterflies/tingles/fuzzy feeling' back?
Does this mean that i don't really love her? cause i'd do anything in this world for her and i can't imagine breaking up with her, ever. We're really happy together but this has been bugging me on my mind a lot.I think it you feel this way because you already know she loves you and just know that it true. You already know that she is yours. Please vote mine the bestMaybe this is just taking your relationship to the next level. It means being intimate and maybe it's just that you feel comfortable around her. If you feel comfortable, then that means you left the "first stage" of dating...if their is a stage at all. You do, after all, say that you would "do anything in this world for her"
you love her. its just to the point now where your content. its just slowed down for you. those tingles will never come back. love is like an episode of everybody loves raymond, except its not funny.
I think you need to evaluate for yourself whether or not you love each other. If you do, it may be time to have a talk with her about using the phrase. It is okay to shout it from the rooftops and say it when you feel the love, but saying it 20 times a day seems a little bit like she is trying to remind you. Saying I love you is a very important part of the relationship for both of you, but it should be said when you feel it. Imagine if you bought new sneakers, you may say you love them and why shouldn't you, you chose them. But you wouldn't walk around all day talking about how much you love your sneakers. If someone asks you may tell them, but you wouldn't start conversations about it because after a while saying it will become repetitive and frustrating to others. While you may feel the love, I think you be becoming annoyed with the idea of repeating the phrase over and over again. Say it when it feels special, and not just to fill void space. Perhaps tell your girlfriend that it would be more meaningful to you if you exchanged I love you's less as a conversation filler and more as a emotion.
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