Guys, what's going on here? Weird situation.?

-I used to date this guy until February but he broke up with me because he didn't want a girlfriend. We continue to be very close- in fact, I consider him my bestfriend and we do hookup with each other. I know he's in love with me and I'll admit it, I'm in love with him we just don't admit it to each other. In the heat of the moment, he told me that I was blind and didn't see that he is the guy for me. Anyways, I was really distraught about him hanging out with this flirty girl and I invited him over to break things off with him. But when he came, his charm won me over. I told him I didn't trust him anymore. We talked it out and smoothed things over. A few days later, I called him trying to break it off again and I chickened out. I told him that when I called him I wanted to break everything off- to the fact that we can't even be friends anymore. Since then, he's been putting more effort into our relationship. We talk everyday now and he comes over early in the afternoon just to talk (even when he has a super busy schedule). He makes up stupid excuses to hang out with me. And everytime I'm mad about something, he talks to me to make me feel better. He confides in me with his deepest feelings and fears (mind you, he's not the emotional type of guy). He knows me very well.Why is he starting to put more effort into our relationship? Does he want to make me his girlfriend eventually?i think.... once you told him that you didnt want to be friends anymore he realized how much he liked you and would miss you if you two werent friends. infact i think he REALLLY likes you.It definitely sounds like it to me. I say if you love this guy and you CAN trust him, than take a chance. He may have ****** things up with you and realized what he did. He's trying to fix things with you.
i think you both are denying that you want to be more than friends with eachother. im in the exact same situation with my guy friend and people tell me that we're just being stupid and not admitting that we want to me exclusive and more than friends. start putting more effort into it on your part too, and i bet you will EVENTUALLY start dating officially. if you like him, dont break things off!!!