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2011年8月4日星期四

Am I too difficult to deal with?

-I'll make this as short as possible. So basically, my boyfriend & I of only 3 months (I know, I know) broke up 2 days ago & we talked a little today but he said I'm too much for him to handle & many people have said that I'm very difficult to deal with but I don't mean to be. It's just how I am & I wish I was a simple person who wasn't difficult. So my question is do I have to change who I am for people to be with me or are there guys out there who would actually put up me & how I am because they genuinely want to be with me? Thanks so much. :)Don't ever change your personality just to make people like you or to keep a guy.



There are some guys that will put up with it, but it seems like you are young.



I am 22 and my boyfriend is 29. I am somewhat hard to deal with since I have anxiety and I am recovering from anorexia but he still puts up with me.



Yeah he's a narcissistic, pompous butt sometimes about it but he admits that he is the same way as me sometimes, that sometimes he is hard to handle.



So we're basically a perfect fit.



You just need to wait cuz there are guys out there like mine.It really depends on what you're doing to be "difficult." Sometimes you have to think of things as "us" rather than "me." When in a relationship you should think, "If I (say,do,buy.ect.) this how is it going to affect US?" But no, in general you shouldn't change yourself too much.
I don't know what you did wrong but I doubt it's anything big considering you've only been together for three months. If he can't handle you at your worst, he doesn't deserve you at your best. But know that you shouldn't have to change for anyone else.

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